The wife and I are looking for the same sort of thing as we live in the north East. Try this link. It is a 'Hawaiian Beach Party' at Upwood Park near Haworth, Yorkshire which sounds like it could be fun! Good luck and I hope you find something to make it a memorable New Years Eve 2013!!!
Hi,
We did that site 2 years ago and had a fab time, you should go, we have found a pub near layburn that will let us park up in there car-park over night so think will go there.
Amazing family weekend with old steam engines, classic car displays, market stalls, and full catering and bar. And camping on site - Save £25 by booking in advance.